Friday night the girls went with Fisher. This is the real start of our every other weekend thing. I had signed the girls up for some volunteer work. Fisher got to take them. he tried to get out of it on Friday. I say, if he really didn't want to do it, he should have said something earlier in the week.
Then when he picked them up, he said it would be okay if they didn't want to spend the night on Saturday. This from the man who wants to stick to the schedule and get as much time with his kids as possible. Weird.
Sunday morning he called to see if he could keep them longer so they could go to a local fair. I said sure, because I'm totally cool like that.
Then after they got home on Sunday, I took them to my friend's house to swim. The girls had a blast...so much so that we went back after Lyric got done with small group (for church). I should probably mention that Fisher thinks I'm "dating" the afore mentioned friend and I think he probably drove by and saw my car there. (because he does stuff like that).
And now, we haven't heard from Fisher. Not a phone call or a text to either of the girls or myself since about 4:00 yesterday...and let me tell you, bloggy world, that is just plain weird and totally out of character for Fisher. I'm a little worried.
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Monday, August 02, 2010
Monday, June 28, 2010
Break Out the Calendar
I started this post and had all of my stuff listed out...then decided that maybe it wasn't a good idea to put it out there for the whole world. Let's just say this: I'm going to two concerts this month (Rick Springfield and Danny Gokey), I'm going to several cook outs and one small town festival, Lyric is auditioning for American Idol, and I'm taking a trip to Missouri for the Hoops for Life Run/Walk.
Fisher and I have started our new custody/visitation schedule. The girls are mostly okay with it. They don't like spending the night during the week but they did have one full weekend so far and that seemed to go okay. This weekend will be #2. Cross your fingers that it goes well. I need all the good vibes in that area that I can get.
Fisher really, really, really does not want the divorce. I really, really, really don't want to be with him anymore. Kind of makes things difficult. It's also hard when he calls me everyday to tell me that he loves me and I'm beautiful and he would do anything for me and he should get a second chance. It also doesn't help when he asks the girls if I have a boyfriend or when he tells them that he's still trying to work it out. I've told him all my issues. I've told him that I don't love him. I've told him that I don't want to be with him. I've told him not to talk to the girls about the details of the divorce. He is not listening. At. All. We go back to court on July 13th to work out some of the financial stuff. I hope that we only have to go back to court one or two more times to get this all done.
Fisher and I have started our new custody/visitation schedule. The girls are mostly okay with it. They don't like spending the night during the week but they did have one full weekend so far and that seemed to go okay. This weekend will be #2. Cross your fingers that it goes well. I need all the good vibes in that area that I can get.
Fisher really, really, really does not want the divorce. I really, really, really don't want to be with him anymore. Kind of makes things difficult. It's also hard when he calls me everyday to tell me that he loves me and I'm beautiful and he would do anything for me and he should get a second chance. It also doesn't help when he asks the girls if I have a boyfriend or when he tells them that he's still trying to work it out. I've told him all my issues. I've told him that I don't love him. I've told him that I don't want to be with him. I've told him not to talk to the girls about the details of the divorce. He is not listening. At. All. We go back to court on July 13th to work out some of the financial stuff. I hope that we only have to go back to court one or two more times to get this all done.
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